About the book
Harvard psychologist Daniel Gilbert examines why people are so poor at predicting what will make them happy. Drawing on behavioral economics, philosophy, psychology and cognitive neuroscience, he argues that imagination fails in consistent ways: it invents or drops details, makes the future look too much like the present, and misses how a psychological immune system will soften bad outcomes once they arrive. The book moves through six sections, from Prospection and Subjectivity to Realism, Presentism, Rationalization and Corrigibility, and ends by suggesting that people learn from others already living the future they imagine. Published in 2006 and written for general readers, it has appeared in over thirty languages.
Mark Manson called it the best book on happiness he has read, arguing that people struggle less to find happiness than to know what it is. James Clear included it among his best psychology books, and Maria Popova said every person should read it.
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This book has 5 recommendations
Derek Sivers (Founder/CDBaby)
My recommendation is to do little tests. Try a few months of living the life you think you want, but leave yourself an exit plan, being open to the big chance that you might not like it after actually trying it... The best book about this subject is Stumbling on Happiness by Daniel Gilbert. His recommendation is to talk to a few people wo are currently where you think you want to be and ask them for the pros and cons. Then trust their opinion since they're right in it, not just remembering or imagining.
Recommended by Chelsea Frank (Founder/Life and Limb Gel)
Source: Chelsea Frank, Founder of Life and Limb Gel, on How Books Revealed the Path to Self-Improvement
Maria Popova (Founder/brainpickings.org)
Dan Gilbert "Stumbling Unhappiness" should be required reading for every human being.
James Clear (Author)
On James Clear’s Best Psychology Books - James Clear
Mark Manson (Author)
The best book on happiness I’ve ever come across. Gilbert’s take is that the problem isn’t that we can’t find happiness, it’s that we often don’t even know what happiness is.
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Sources
- Tools of Titans
- Chelsea Frank, Founder of Life and Limb Gel, on How Books Revealed the Path to Self-Improvement
- The Tim Ferriss Show - Maria Popova on Being Interesting, Creating More Time in a Day, And How to Start A Successful Blog (#92)
- Best Psychology Books - James Clear
- The 9 Best Books on Psychology - Mark Manson


