About the book
Executive coach Jerry Colonna, a former venture capitalist whom Gimlet Media called the CEO Whisperer, argues that leaders need radical self-inquiry to succeed at work and to keep their relationships healthy. He works with start-up CEOs on the psychological habits and behavior patterns that helped them succeed yet harmed their relationships and well-being. His method mixes Buddhism and Jungian therapy with blunt entrepreneurial talk to help leaders face emotional baggage and psychological trauma. Colonna asks leaders to use the raw material of their own lives to find meaning, build healthy bonds, become more compassionate and bold, and take responsibility for their choices. He holds that work need not destroy people and can instead be where they become their fullest selves.
Angela Duckworth praised it as an honest account of why a business cannot grow unless its leader grows too, and Adam Grant called it a raw look at how childhood shapes leadership. Brad Feld, who learned to be a venture capitalist alongside Colonna, endorsed it as well.
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This book has 4 recommendations
Brad Feld (Investor, Co-Founder/Foundry Group)
Jerry and I learned how to be VCs together. But more importantly, we learned how to be humans to the leaders who are entrepreneurs. Leadership is extremely difficult, and great leaders are intensely introspective, as they must learn about themselves to be effective long-term. With this book, Jerry helps any leader go deep on all aspects of their journey.
Patty McCord (Former Chief Talent Officer at Netflix)
Jerry's book is so much more than the secrets of the CEO whisperer. It’s about the courage to have a broken open heart.
Adam Grant (Author)
An unusually raw and revealing exploration of how our leadership journeys are shaped by the defining moments of our childhood...
Angela Duckworth (Author)
If you want to be a better leader, or a better person, or both, read this book. A beautifully written, achingly honest account of why you can’t grow a business without growing yourself.
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